The Decision Hour

Ep: 284 - Accelerate and Multiply with Daniel Tolson

This was such a great time talking with Daniel Tolson. We start the show off with Daniel sharing a funny story about his time working in the family Pawn Business.
When then go back in time and listen his story from growing up with a learning disability, to realizing at a young age that he wanted to help people, which lead into coaching people how to wakeboard, that would eventually lead to him traveling the world teaching locals how to wakeboard.  We then dive into how he got into what he is doing now! (https://danieltolson.com)
“No goals, no future. Goal setting is about your future. And I don't know if you know this, but you're going to spend the rest of your life in your future.” ~ Daniel Tolson ~
We wrap up the show with Daniel sharing powerful Decision Hour message.
“Fear. The fear comes up and the fee is going to come up for between four and 30 seconds. And before you have an emotional hijacking. You got to get clarity of your mind. You got to take control of those emotions and you've got to get back to an emotionally clear state. And only once you're in that emotionally clear state, should you decide what is right or wrong for you. And if you've got to make a decision, always move towards your biggest fear. You're a military man, you always move towards the biggest enemy. That's what you do.”
 
Daniel Tolson has served as a consultant to more than 15,000 companies and individuals throughout Australia, New Zealand, Taiwan, Malaysia, Singapore, United Arab Emirates, Italy, Great Britain, Ireland, and both North and South America.
As a business influencer, he impacts millions of people each year. He has studied, researched, written, and spoken for 20 years on the topics of time management, goal setting, strategic planning, sales iQ, business model innovation and emotional intelligence. Daniel is considered the world’s Number One business coach specializing in Emotional Intelligence, with over 5,500 case studies into emotional intelligence in the past three years alone. He has written and produced more than 250 audio and video learning programs, which have influenced business owners all around the world, including: Mental Detox, Total Emotional Mastery, and Win Sales Now!
Daniel speaks to corporate and public audiences on the subjects of Emotional and Social Intelligence, including the executives and staff of many of Australia’s largest corporations. His interactive talks and seminars on Selling with Emotional Intelligence, Business Model Innovation, Time Management and The Psychology of Success bring about immediate improvements in productivity, performance and output. Prior to founding his company, The Tolson Institute, Daniel was a leader of 17,000 cabin crew for Emirates Airlines. He has had successful careers in real estate sales and marketing, Pawnbroking, Second Hand Dealing, a former Australian Champion Wakeboarder and eXtreme Games Competitor.
He has conducted high-level consulting assignments with many billion-dollar plus corporations in emotional intelligence and business model innovation. Daniel has traveled and worked in over 100 countries on six continents and lives in both Taiwan and Australia.
He is happily married with two children.
 

Ep: 283 - The Wall Between Two Lives

Get ready for this episode as you will hear from U.S. Army Veteran, Author and Busines owner Annette Whittenberger.  Listen to her story as she shares the why for writing her book “The Wall Between Two Lives” and hear how a car accident made her make a “decision” that would forever impact her life and the lives of others.
“So I'll tell you, when you guys get the book, you're worried a little bit about my car accident. And I was at home and I was in recovery. And I had to make a decision on whether I was going to choose to live with what my struggles were, or if I was going to suffer from them. And that was a huge decision because I always was the victim and everything and even with a car seat and it was like boohoo me I have to use a wheelchair, I have to use a cane, I have to do all these things. I had to make a decision on how I was going to spend the rest of my life whether it was you know, limping all the time, or whatever the case was on how I recovered from it. And I chose to say, Okay, let's is it I have this, and I'm going to own it and not be afraid to talk about it anymore” ~Annette Whittenberger

The Importance of Mindset

We are forced to make Decisions in our lives every day.  We are faced with situations that we have no control over, however we can control our reactions to those situations.  Before you can do that, you must be in the right mindset.  Mindset is a conscious decision that requires a choice: positive or negative. 
 
In this episode, I was lucky enough to sit down with the guys from Not Your Average Operator, (https://bit.ly/3IEsIB9) a podcast that dives into some of life’s hardest questions, challenges, and situations as they open up their lives and personal experiences and dissect them in a way that can bring out the best version of ourselves, and help leave the negative in the rearview mirror.
 
After some much-needed banter and some really good laughs, we dive into the topic of mindset.
We discuss the importance of mindset and provide some examples of our own personal experiences regarding positivity, being grateful, asking for help and how to turn a bad situation around.
We had a lot fun recording this episode as you will hear.  That said, this is a topic we don’t take lightly, we understand the importance, we have all been there.  We hope that you enjoy this episode.  Should you find yourself letting your mindset wonder into places it doesn’t need to be, call on us… We are here to help.
 
 
Email:Adam@Heroesmediagrp.comPaul “Melon” McFadden
NotYourAveragePaul@gmail.com
Raf “Tio” Espinosa
NotYourAverageRaf@gmail.com
Mike
NotYourAverageMike77@gmail.com

Ep: 281 - Being Civil

Being Civil.  Seem easy enough, right? Than why do so many people have trouble doing it?
 
We are wrapping up on the series of “Let’s have a conversation” with this week’s episode called “Being Civil”.  Adam and John recap the series and the overall goal of bring people together to have to conversations all while being civil to each other.  Remember, you don’t have to agree with someone’s belief’s or way of thinking, but you can always remain civil.
 
So, what does it take to be civil?  Take a listen.

Ep: 280 - Free Speech

 
We are talking about free speech with a bit of a twist.  When we talk say, free speech, is it, people can say what they want to say… right?  In this episode, we also discuss when free speech isn’t free.  We use a few examples such as the Lieutenant Colonel of the Marine Corps that called out senior leaders not being held accountable.  We also mention a former Fox reporter who was fired for calling out Fox corporation for muzzling her.  Now, some will read that and say, he was Military, or she worked for a company and certain policies might be set in place, and that maybe true, however we also discuss free speech from a standpoint of being on social media or out in a public setting. 
 
This was an interesting topic to cover. What are your thoughts about how free speech is looked at in today’s world.
 
 NOTE: Since this recording there have been updates on the Lieutenant Colonel of the Marine Corps, find more information on that case here: https://bit.ly/3b1aRok

Ep: 279 - Goodbye Freedom

How many of you think that we are on the verge of losing all of our God given freedoms?
We expand this series of “Let’s have a Conversation” with the topic this week of “Goodbye Freedom”, Why you ask?  LOOK! Your GOD given freedoms are being taking from you.  You no longer have the freedom to say what you can put in your body, you no longer have the freedom of religion, you no longer have the freedom of speech You no longer have… Freedom.
Are we to far gone that we can’t be saved?  We think not.  So take a listen as the guys discuss Goodbye Freedom what it means, where it’s going and how YOU can fix it.
 
Ask yourself, is your freedom important to you?  Then take a listen.

Ep: 278 - Are You Being Conditioned

We are continuing the series called let's have a conversation and this week’s topic is "Are you being conditioned".
What are you watching, reading or listening to everyday, right now, in your life? Does any of it cause an emotional reaction?  Ask yourself are we being slowly conditioned to become used to more government control, less freedom, more intrusion on our basic rights? Perhaps we are living in some giant psychological experiment.
Tune in as Adam and John talk about how one could easily think that we are being conditioned, how it’s happening and examples of past and present events that lead to their conclusions. Here’s another question they ask you the listener… Do Americans still believe in freedom?

Ep: 277- Ideology

What type of Ideology do we see most in the world today?
There are different types of ideology, and its certainly a word that has been thrown around a lot as of late.  Take a listen as we talk about what ideology is running most of the world right now, we even ask the question, is the “woke” ideology the same as what we are seeing in Afghanistan with the Taliban?

Ep: 276 - The Circus

The Government has turned into a circus!  The people don't believe in their government anymore. Take a listen as we discuss what is going on right now and how the government has just turned everything upside down.  Who’s in charge? What’s happening in our country? How is this going to affect the global economy?  Have we lost our freedoms?  It’s all a circus.  But, there is some light at the end of the tunnel, take a listen and find out what decisions you can make to help get things under control.  

Ep: 275 - Transition On Purpose with Dennis Volpe

Dennis Volpe (https://dennis-volpe.com) is an International Coaching Federation (ICF) Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with the Leadership Research Institute specializing in Performance, Personal Leadership and Transition Coaching. He helps others make more informed decisions about the work they do and the life they lead so they are more focused, fulfilled, and resilient. Dennis is no stranger to leadership as he spent more than twenty years as a Naval Officer in the United States Navy. We talk about his time in the Navy and he shares a personal story that happened while in command during the 2014 Sochi Olympics.
Dennis is an international best-selling author, his book Transition on Purpose (www.transitiononpurpose.com) provides a personal story of transition illustrating success, failure, and personal resilience. It will teach you how to have a Transition on Purpose Mindset emphasizing self-awareness, exploration, and action to live your best life. We discuss how the book came about, the stories in the book that he shares and what you will learn. “Things happen. And change is a fact of life. So, transition, is the choice that we make.”
We close out the show and ask the question, “Who is your tribe?”  We also learn a little more about Dennis and his company Severn River Leadership Group. (www.severnriverleadershipgroup.com) Dennis puts his money where his mouth is.  He invests in veteran, first responder, or elite athlete owned companies. “if you're someone who has worn the cloth of our nation, either in combat, competition or service to the community, I want to do business with you” ~ Dennis Volpe ~
 
This is a great episode I hope you enjoy it and be sure to reach out to Dennis, check out his websites and order your copy of his book Transition on Purpose today!