The Decision Hour

Ep: 353 - Losing Game: How Wars Are Lost and Veterans Pay the Price

In this compelling episode of "The Decision Hour," host Adam Bird sits down with Eric Hommel, a retired Lieutenant Colonel whose extensive military career offers a unique perspective on the intricacies of service across different branches. Eric's journey is a fascinating one, beginning as a Navy submariner before transitioning to an Air Force officer, providing him with a broad view of military operations and leadership dynamics.
Eric's time in Afghanistan is a focal point of the discussion, where he shares vivid accounts of the challenges faced on the ground. He recounts the complexities of navigating the rugged Afghan terrain, the cultural nuances that often went unnoticed by higher command, and the day-to-day realities of engaging with local communities. These experiences underscore the importance of cultural sensitivity and the need for a deep understanding of the local context to achieve mission success.
One poignant example Eric shares is the difficulty in establishing trust with Afghan villagers, a crucial element for gathering intelligence and ensuring the safety of troops. He describes efforts to build relationships through small gestures, such as sharing meals and participating in local customs, which often proved more effective than traditional military strategies.
Eric also reflects on the strategic challenges faced during his deployments, particularly the disconnect between military leadership and the realities on the ground. He highlights instances where decisions made at higher levels failed to consider the nuanced and rapidly changing conditions in Afghanistan, leading to operational setbacks and increased risks for soldiers.
His book, "The Losing Game: How to Lose A War and Fail Veterans" serves as a critical examination of these military failures, emphasizing the need for leaders to understand the 'why' behind their missions. Eric argues that this understanding is not only vital for mission success but also plays a significant role in the rehabilitation of veterans, who often struggle to reconcile their experiences with the broader objectives of their service.
Throughout the episode, Eric's personal anecdotes and reflective analysis provide listeners with a deeper understanding of the systemic issues within military strategy and the importance of adapting to the cultural and political landscapes of conflict zones. He discusses the impact of political decisions on military operations, illustrating how these choices can complicate efforts on the ground and affect the morale of those serving.
Join us for this thought-provoking exploration of military leadership, the lessons learned from decades of service, and the enduring spirit of those who serve. This episode promises to offer valuable insights into the challenges faced by our military and the path forward in addressing these complex issues. Don't miss this opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of the realities of war and the truths that emerge from those who have lived it.
 
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Ep: 352 - Leadership in Marriage: Embracing Masculinity and Choosing Your Partner

In this powerful episode of The Decision Hour, we sit down with Jeremy Hill, founder of JB Capital and host of The Jeremy B. Hill Show. Jeremy shares his inspiring journey from aspiring doctor to thriving entrepreneur, proving that your profession does not define your identity. "What you do isn’t necessarily who you are," he reminds us.
🚀 Inside This Episode:
Jeremy’s unconventional path to business success and the lessons he learned along the way.
Balancing entrepreneurship and family life—real stories and practical advice.
Marriage insights: The importance of clear expectations and daily commitment in relationships. “I always, when I’m with her, not with her, choose my wife.”
Leadership at home and in business: Why guiding your children is just as crucial as loving them. “If I am loving on my children, but I am not leading them… you got to up your father game.”
🔥 Why Listen?If you’re an entrepreneur looking to balance business growth, family responsibilities, and personal fulfillment, this episode is packed with actionable strategies and eye-opening insights. Jeremy’s experiences prove that prioritizing family doesn’t just strengthen relationships—it also earns greater respect in the professional world.
🎧 Tune in now and take control of your decisions!Check out his website:https://thejeremybhill.com/
 

Ep: 351 - The Mag Lifestyle: Uniting Communities Through Stories

Join us as we sit down with Renee Wagner, a dynamic entrepreneur and the driving force behind The Mag Lifestyle. Renee shares her journey from a small-town upbringing in southern Massachusetts to becoming a successful publisher. Her story is one of perseverance, shaped by the determination she witnessed in her single mother raising six children.
In this episode, we explore the evolution of The Mag Lifestyle—how it transformed from a traditional magazine into a vibrant community platform during the challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic. Renee opens up about her initial reluctance to be the face of her brand and how embracing authenticity led to new opportunities.
Renee's passion for supporting veterans shines through as she discusses her work focusing on mental health and PTSD. Her personal experiences, coupled with her husband's background as a disabled veteran, drive her commitment to this cause. She shares a poignant encounter with a Gold Star mother, which deepened her resolve to support military families.
Don't miss the details of the Salute to American Heroes event—a testament to Renee's dedication to veterans. Despite setbacks, including hurricanes, she brought together entertainers like Paul Senior from Orange County Choppers and Dave Bray USA to honor those who serve.
Tune in to hear about Renee's upcoming projects, including a tribute apparel line with Zero Six Reveille and her plans to expand her brand regionally.
Listen in for a conversation filled with personal growth, community building, and the power of storytelling. This episode is a must for anyone looking to make a positive impact in their community.
Checkout her website: http://TheMagLifestyle.com
 
Social Media: @TheMagLifestyle

Ep: 350 - The Gutter Gospel: Veteran's Story of Overcoming Homelessness

Today, we sit down with Michael Smith, an Air Force veteran and author, who shares his profound journey through mental health challenges, homelessness, and eventual recovery. Michael opens up about his experiences with bipolar disorder, detailing the extreme highs and lows that led to two suicide attempts. He recounts a pivotal moment when a quiet voice stopped him, reminding him of his purpose in life.
Listen in as Michael discusses his military background and the struggles he faced post-service, including time spent in treatment facilities and homeless shelters. He emphasizes the importance of medication and support systems in managing bipolar disorder, sharing insights from his own journey to stability. Michael's story is one of resilience and redemption, culminating in the writing of his book, "The Gutter Gospel: The Road to Redemption"—a project 30 years in the making.
Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with heartfelt stories and valuable lessons on overcoming adversity. Tune in to discover how Michael Smith turned his darkest moments into a beacon of hope for others.
 
Check out his website: https://theguttergospel.com/

Ep: 349 - Comics and Camaraderie: Veterans Finding Community in Art

Today, we sit down with Stephen Russell, an Iraq War veteran turned author and artist. Stephen shares his journey from the battlefield to the creative world, offering a unique perspective on life after military service.
Join us as we explore Stephen's military background, including his deployment to Iraq and the challenges he faced transitioning to civilian life. He candidly discusses the misconceptions veterans often encounter in the job market and how these experiences shaped his path. Stephen's memoir, "Troublemakers, the Greatest Dog and Pony Show in Iraq," captures his deployment stories and the camaraderie of his platoon.
Listen in as Stephen talks about his current artistic projects, like the comic series "Tales of Nihilism," which delves into veteran struggles through a creative lens. He also highlights the Veteran Comic Con in San Francisco, a gathering for veterans in the creative industry.
Tune in for an episode filled with insights, personal anecdotes, and a call to action for supporting veteran creativity.
 
Contact Stephen: saltyskipper@gmail.com
 
Check out his websites:
https://globalcomix.com/a/tales-of-nihilism/comics
https://blueearbooks.com/books/troublemakers/
https://ateaseveteransmagazine.com/

Ep: 348 - Champions For Veterans: Innovating Services and Supporting Transitions

In this powerful episode of The Decision Hour, host Adam Bird sits down with Gino and Terry “Ranger” Johnson, the father-son team behind Champions for Veterans. Their mission? To help veterans secure the VA benefits they’ve earned by providing expert guidance and game-changing tools like the VA Claim Builder app.
Terry, a former Army Ranger and Green Beret, shares his firsthand experience of navigating the complicated VA system and how his struggles led to the creation of Champions for Veterans. Gino, despite a successful corporate career, chose to join forces with his father, bringing business acumen and a shared passion for helping veterans.
This episode dives into:
✅ Terry’s military journey and his post-service challenges with VA benefits
✅ Why so many veterans struggle with VA claims and how to overcome these obstacles
✅ How the VA Claim Builder app is simplifying the claims process
✅ Success stories, including a Vietnam veteran receiving 100% disability after 50 years
✅ A call to action for veterans to get the benefits they deserve
Why This Matters:
Thousands of veterans are denied the support they earned due to the complexity of the VA claims process. Champions for Veterans is changing that. If you or a veteran you know is struggling with a VA claim, this episode is a must-listen.
🔹 Don’t leave benefits on the table—take action today!
Resources & Links:
📲 Download the VA Claim Builder App: www.vaclaimbuilder.com
🌐 Learn More About Champions for Veterans: www.championsforveterans.com
📌 Follow Champions for Veterans on Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/ChampionsForVets
📢 If you found this episode valuable, please share it with a veteran and leave a review!
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Ep: 347 - Soaring Above Life’s Bumps with Courage and Hope

Welcome to the 2025 season premiere of The Decision Hour with your host, Adam Bird! This powerful episode features an extraordinary guest, Pat Wetzel, whose story will ignite your courage and inspire your soul.
Pat Wetzel is more than an award-winning author, speaker, and podcaster; she’s a force of nature. As a pilot and acclaimed photographer, she’s the living embodiment of resilience and determination. Her book, "Bump in the Road,"weaves together 15 heartfelt stories of courage, hope, and the indomitable human spirit.
In this episode, Pat shares her incredible journey, taking us from the high-stakes world of New York finance to her fight against a rare neurological disease and cancer. It’s a story of survival, strength, and rediscovery. Aviation became her sanctuary—an unexpected introduction to glider flying sparked a love affair with the skies, propelling her into races, cross-country adventures, and eventually a move to the serene beauty of Lake Tahoe.
But Pat’s story doesn’t stop there. She opens up about her experiences with long-term illness, how it inspired her to launch Cancer Road Trip, and how those reflections evolved into her impactful podcast, Bump in the Road. Along the way, Pat faced immense setbacks, including challenges with a tech startup, yet turned them into lessons for a life of purpose and adventure.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking motivation and perspective. Pat’s wisdom and authenticity will leave you feeling empowered to tackle your own “bumps” in the road.
✨ Listen now and be inspired! ✨
Connect with Pat Wetzel:🌐 Visit her website📷 Instagram: @bumpintheroadpodcast🐦 Twitter: @PatWetzel📘 Facebook: Bump in the Road Podcast

Ep: 346 - Neurosomatic Therapy with Holly Joy McCabe

We have an incredible guest whose story of resilience and healing is sure to inspire you. Join us as we sit down with Holly Joy McCabe, a neurosomatic trauma therapist who specializes in healing trauma and optimizing performance and she is the founder of Brain Body Speak.
In this episode, Holly shares her tumultuous journey through a challenging childhood, including her escape from an abusive cult, battling trauma and overcoming a violent assault. Drawing from her personal experiences and professional expertise, Holly discusses critical insights into the significance of deep breaths in regulating the nervous system, the power of body awareness and posture in managing stress, and the essential role of the nervous system in overall well-being.
We'll delve into the unique challenges men face in seeking help, dismantling societal stigmas, and the crucial need for community support in the healing journey. Holly introduces us to somatic practices and neurodrills — actionable tools for bringing the body into a state of safety and reducing chronic stress. Together, we explore the interconnectedness of mental, emotional, and physical health, uncovering how to reprogram the nervous system for lasting positive change.
 
Check out Holly's website: https://www.brainbodyspeak.com

Ep: 345 - Turning Dreams into Reality

Welcome back to another episode of The Decision Hour! Today, we sit down with the multifaceted Sean Frost — entrepreneur, real estate broker, property investor, and President of Black River Homes. Sean takes us on a journey through his fascinating career transitions, from the music industry to real estate. He shares personal anecdotes about receiving a signed jacket from a music artist, his pivotal decision involving a $25,000 check on his vision board, and how hitting rock bottom emotionally led him to success in real estate.
Listen in as we discuss the importance of long-term dedication, continuous education, and the entrepreneurial spirit. With stories of working in a hospital while building his real estate business, and leveraging his network to achieve his dreams, Sean offers invaluable advice for budding real estate enthusiasts and entrepreneurs. Don’t miss this inspiring episode filled with insights on staying committed, the power of visualization, and finding passion beyond financial gains. Tune in and learn how to truly live like you dream!

Ep: 344 - Operation Vet Now: Bridging Resources for Veterans in Need

Today, we dive deep into the mission and endeavors of Operation Vet Now (OVN) with our special guest, Tony Aubrey. Tony, a retired Air Force mechanic and recruiter, shares his compelling journey from military service to founding OVN, an organization dedicated to supporting veterans. Tune in as we discuss the origins of OVN, its innovative outreach approach, and the transformative Ambassador Athlete Program that utilizes sports as therapy for veterans. Join us as we explore how OVN is making a significant difference by connecting veterans to essential resources and honoring the heroes we've lost. This episode promises heartfelt stories, keen insights, and a clear call to action for our veteran community.
Visit their website: https://opvetnow.org/
 
Tony Aubrey Co-Founder & Program Director at Operation Vet NOW Inc. (OVN) 
Tony’s Story: 
After graduating from High School in 1984, Tony enlisted in the United States Air Force as a mechanic and later crossed-trained to be analyst. His years of active duty included 12 tours (5 overseas and 7 state side), including a 9-month deployment to Operation Desert Shield/Storm where he earned the USAF Commendation Medal for achievements in direct support of the liberation of Kuwait. Since leaving the military Tony has worked in event and sports marketing, and non-profit leadership. In 2017 he and some past teammates created the organization Operation Vet NOW Inc. (OVN), a non-profit organization focused on improving the overall mental wellness of every veteran who served through outreach and honoring those who paid the ultimate sacrifice. Tony uses his experience and networks in all levels of sports as the platform for OVN’s three focus projects. He enjoys golfing, riding dirt bikes, and most of all spending time with his three grandchildren. 
Tony left active duty after 22 years of service and since completed his BA from American Military University and MS from Endicott College, in addition he’s earned a Six Sigma Masters Certification and an Executive Certification in Non-Profit Management from Notre Dame’s Mendoza School of Business. He also serves on the Endicott College’s Sports Leadership Advisory Board. 
Military Decorations 4 Meritorious Service Medals, 3 Air Force Commendation Medals, 1 Air Force Achievement Medal, 2 Air Force Outstanding Unit Medals 1 with Valor, Southwest Asia Service Metal, Global War on Terror Service Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Kuwait Service Medal, Kuwait Liberation Medal, and Air Force Good Conduct Medal.